My relationship with Howie – friend, nephew,
brother, sheep.
Last night at the funeral home, I approached the
casket in which Howie lay—decked in bow hunting apparel. I begin to
quietly weep with memories of my good friend. Also standing next to
the casket was a little girl, Howie’s granddaughter – Christina, who
was stroking his forehead. With tears flowing down, I kneeled and
said to her. “He was your grandfather, right?” “Yes” was her reply.
I look her in the eyes and said to her with conviction – “your
grandfather was a dear man.” She nodded her head with agreement and
said – “yes, and he also had a pet deer.” It surely transformed the
emotional tension to laughter and joy as I thought about the reality
that he was both a dear man and a deer man.
Thoughts and Memories of Howie:
First helped me lead worship at a new church
Hugs
“Grandpa Howie”
Bob cat
Tracking deer
Innovation
Visiting sick and elderly together
Singing and playing together
Bringing my wife a rose
Bringing his guitar everywhere
Preparing the church to worship on Sunday
morning
Praying together in my office on Tuesdays
Buying me lunch at Subway
Cheering for the Packers for me
Bring his dog (Tootsie or Sophie) to the
office and scaring me
Generosity…
In the final six months we spent a lot of time
together – much of it was prayer together for God to do a great work
in our hearts and in the hearts of others (including many of you).
We prayed for people by name.
I am teeter toting on the two ends of grief, on
one end, and joy, on the other end.
You and I grieve, because we lost something last
Saturday night. But in reality, for many we really didn’t lose a
dear friend – we lost contact with him.
I want to talk to you about something this
evening that is of great joy – for Howie – IT IS NOT DEATH TO DIE.
This is the title of a song that we sang last
Sunday morning.
It is not death to die
To leave this weary road
And join the saints who dwell on high
Who’ve found their home with God
1. IT IS NOT DEATH TO DIE – instead…IT IS
FREEDOM FROM PAIN AND SORROW.
It is not death to close
The eyes long dimmed by tears
And wake in joy before Your throne
Delivered from our fears
We are all glad that Howie is no longer
suffering.
The Word of God makes this reality more than a
hopeful sentiment.
2 Corinthians 4:16-18 So we do not lose heart.
Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being
renewed day by day. (17) For this light momentary affliction is
preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison,
(18) as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things
that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the
things that are unseen are eternal.
Romans 8:18 says that the sufferings of this
present time are not worthy to compare to the glory that is coming.
This is the reality for Howie. His pain is done.
He is resting from the pain and sorrow.
His wife, Marie, gave me his pocketbook. It has
many appointments in it – including many pain treatments for his
body. NO LONGER NECESSARY.
For Howie – it is not death to die, instead it is
freedom from pain and sorrow.
2. IT IS NOT DEATH TO DIE – instead…IT IS JOY
AND PLEASURE IN THE PRESENCE OF JESUS.
2 Corinthians 5:6-8 So we are always of good
courage. We know that while we are at home in the body we are away
from the Lord, (7) for we walk by faith, not by sight. (8) Yes,
we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body
and at home with the Lord.
Philippians 1:21-23 For to me to live is Christ,
and to die is gain. (22) If I am to live in the flesh, that means
fruitful labor for me. Yet which I shall choose I cannot tell.
(23) I am hard pressed between the two. My desire is to depart and
be with Christ, for that is far better.
Howie is with Jesus and Psalm 16 says – in His
presence is fullness of joy and at His right hand are pleasures
evermore.
I know that Howie’s soul was ready for this great
day.
He was made a new creation – he had a changed
heart.
- He was a worshipper of God from the heart
- He was an evangelist with a message – (see
pocket Bible that he got last year and spread the faith)/
WHY? HOW?
It is not death to die for Howie because he had
something that not everyone has (including in this room).
HOWIE RECEIVED THE GOSPEL WITH SINCERE TRUST AND
REPENTANCE.
His Bible has this passages marked:
John 3:3 Jesus answered him, "Truly, truly, I
say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of
God."
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and
the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through
me.
Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short
of the glory of God,
Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but
the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
Romans 10:9-10 because, if you confess with your
mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised
him from the dead, you will be saved. (10) For with the heart one
believes and is justified, and with the mouth one confesses and is
saved.
Revelation 3:20-22 Behold, I stand at the door
and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come
in to him and eat with him, and he with me. (21) The one who
conquers, I will grant him to sit with me on my throne, as I also
conquered and sat down with my Father on his throne. (22) He who
has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.'"
God’s Invitation and His Provision in Jesus
2 Corinthians 5:20-21 Therefore, we are
ambassadors for Christ, God making his appeal through us. We implore
you on behalf of Christ, be reconciled to God. (21) For our sake
he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might
become the righteousness of God.
Song:
O Jesus, conquering the grave
Your precious blood has power to save
Those who trust in You
Will in Your mercy find
That it is not death to die
I beg of you – trust in Jesus for the forgiveness
of your sins and give your life to him by faith and turn from your
sinful way. Forgiveness, grace, joy and eternal if promised.
The Bible says that some in this room (those who
don’t know Jesus and haven’t had their hearts transformed) are more
dead than Howie is today. That need not be the case. He is calling
you to accept him by making a decision to fully trust in him for
forgiveness, and eternal life in Jesus as you turn from your old
self-decided way.
John 3:16.
CONCLUSION
Yesterday when I was kneeling next to Christina
talking about her grandfather, I said something else to her that I
want to say with great love and I know that dear Howie wants met to
say it – “your grandfather is with Jesus in heaven. He is there
because he trusted in Jesus to forgive him from his sins and to give
him new life. He wants you to know, love and trust this Jesus just
like he did.”